February 2012
Live, Laugh, Awesome: okay, sure you don't think... →
adiosblowreador:
livelaughawesome:
okay, sure that’s fucking fine. you believe that people can’t be otherkin or fictionkin or fictive or non-human. kind of like how right wing nuts think that “gays can be cured” or assholes who claim that “asexuality isn’t real and you just need a…
Re: otherkin and oppression, most of the stuff against otherkin I see is smothered in ableism and...
Can you bring food through an EU airport in a...
I’m gonna want to bring back some cumin seed Gouda and powdered aniseed and salty licorice and whatnot from Holland. Can I have it in a carry-on or will I have to mail it back? I only have a carry-on.
Going to Holland!
Somebody very kind gave me the money for the flights. So I’m off to Holland! It will be nice to have a chance to get my head straight away from him and my mum. And it’s gonna be nice seeing my step-nana again too.
Bye England!
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Yes, US dollars work on my PayPal!
youarenotyou asked: i'm so sorry that things are going so poorly for you rn :( i haven't been in that situation exactly but i have definitely experienced that level of despair/hopelessness/feeling trapped & it is so awful. (hugs) at the risk of sounding invalidating (i hope it doesn't sound that way--this is what i tell myself to get through rough times): try to take things one day at a time. it...
Anonymous asked: I am so sorry to hear all that you've been going through lately. Your blog, and askanonbinary, have helped me through so much shit in my own life. I wish there were more I could do to help, but at the very least you should know you're a wonderful person and you don't deserve this.
Spoke to him about shit today.
I explained to him how he needs to deal with my mental and he said I was ‘telling him he wasn’t allowed to say anything’. And then he said he ‘needed to think about it’.
I don’t think I can get past this. I think it’s going to be over. Fuck.
Fuck it, finally gonna try sleeping again. Night folks!
prolongedeyecontact asked: I wouldn't call it whining Cydne. I wish there was something I could do to help. I'm thinking about you, though.
Don't be afraid to bleed, afraid to dream:... →
unknowablewoman:
velocidarling replied to your post: LEGITIMATE CONFUSION
I’ve seen some tbros appropriate transmisogyny to mean, as they use it, transphobia [against trans guys]? So maybe they’re calling you it re: discussing abortion as a women’s issue?
But I thought the point…
When cis feminists say abortion is a ‘women’s only issue’ I’d hazard a guess...
Sorry I’ve been whining all night.
Just not coping too well, ya know?
Dropped at least 20 followers since I made my...
Apparently some folk only find me interesting if I don’t ever talk about my personal life.
racismschool:
stfuconfederates:
stonedpervert:
stfuconfederates:
Fuck the history booksx
Translation: Never apologize for using the popular ‘state’s rights’ defense for your obvious racism, and fuck what actually happened because you like your white supremacist version of history better.
^Translation: I’m a dumb, neo-liberal reactionary that believes everything I read in books that...
I can’t face losing my benefits. If I move in with the husband or my mother I will. I can’t afford to lose that money. I can’t find a job, believe me, I’ve been looking. I don’t know how I’m gonna survive this.
allecto asked: I'm so sorry about everything.
deviousmouse replied to your post: Why couldn’t my husband just not be an asshole?…
(Depression warning) Because there are no rules to life and it’s chaos. So you might as well try to make your own personal rules and live the way you want? It beats the alternative, which is to give up.
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Look, I’m sure you probably meant this in a really nice way but… How the...
1nvadergir asked: Would sending money to your paypal only make you more overdrawn? How much would you need to be given to get out of a financial hole?
Why couldn’t my husband just not be an asshole? Why couldn’t my mother not cheat on my dad?
Why is my life always in the hands of everyone else? Why does everything I work for disintegrate every time my life is going well through no fault of my own?
And because mum and dad split up she doesn’t have any money. Which means I can’t go to the gym anymore. And yes, this sounds so petty, but for once in my life I was doing exercise and feeling good! It was giving me self confidence and I actually enjoyed it. And it was the only thing I had outside my house that wasn’t a drinking problem.
lemon curry?: is it possible that transautism... →
goldenheartedrose:
geekybitch:
ironical-moronical:
uuuh this has been bothering me for a while wow um i cant believe im getting this of my chest the thing is just like transexuals feel they were born the wrong gender i feel like i was born the wrong mental state as a non…
Sweet Jesus, apparently saying ‘I’m so OCD!!!’ isn’t enough anymore. ‘Gifted with...
qinhara asked: i am so sorry that you are having to deal with such a terrible, oppressive situation. so angry at your husband and your mother for being so horrifically ableist. i really hope that somehow you manage to get out to a safer place.
The government goes on about how great marriage is for society but getting married to someone who earns minimum wage and does a 14-20 hour a week job resulted in losing my disability benefits.
I can’t get a job that will accommodate my disability or with hours that I can manage. I can’t even get a job at all because of this economy and continuing discrimination against metal health...
Now my face is coming up in a rash. Not sure if it’s an allergy or stress at this point.
blinkpink asked: Anything I can do to help?
tal9000 replied to your post: I’m 20 and I’m living in a hotel with a woman who…
Can you pull money out of your paypal account or are there barriers to that? I put a few pounds there.
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It takes 3-5 days to go through and the account it goes into is £30 overdrawn. I only found that out yesterday.
All I’ve eaten today is a cup noodle and a bag of crisps. I can’t do this.
And what I really need is a job so I can at least save some money but in this town in this economy with my disabilities I’m basically fucked.
I’m 20 and I’m living in a hotel with a woman who just yelled at me for sniffling despite the fact she’s had two coughing fits in the past hour. Soon I’m going to move into a 1 bedroom flat in a bad area with her where I get to be yelled at for biting my nails or not doing the dishes. The alternative is moving back in with my husband who demanded a medical certificate to...
uguurai replied to your post: uguurai replied to your post: Oh, now she’s woken…
i read that, but like, why did he suddenly not believe you’re autistic? did he have doubts before? it’s sort of scary and strange to me, you know, that someone would suddenly change like that?
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Because I’ve been able to stop suppressing it so much apparently I’m making it up for...
uguurai replied to your post: Oh, now she’s woken up enough to put The OC or…
mind if i ask what happened with your husband? e_e you two seemed to be really good together…? you don’t have to talk about it of course…
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We got into a huge argument and he ended up demanding proof I was autistic (he’s allistic). I’ve tried to talk since and he’s basically tried to...
Oh, now she’s woken up enough to put The OC or something similar on.
I really don’t want to have to live with her, she’s a nightmare to be around. She’s already yelled at me for walking too slow today when I was carrying three huge bags up a hill in serious pain.
I hate that my options are her or the husband. She yells at me for stimming and has a long history of at...
Mum woke me up by blaring the tv.
I have serious trouble sleeping Larry and now I’m up after getting an hour’s sleep. And then she channel surfed the 9 channels we have, before dozing off on one of those phone-in gambling things they have at night on ITV and the remote is under her.
I rarely get back to sleep if I’ve been woken up. I’m gonna feel like hell later.
I am. I am. I am.: dorkvahkiin: honestly with the... →
dorkvahkiin:
honestly with the quiet hands thing though like
i guess i’m pretty lucky in that i stim by tapping my fingers??? (always the same middle three of my right hand, rapidly and loudly in most cases) i have done this pretty much as long as i can remember, and i vaguely think that i…
Now I can stim more freely, I’m noticing mine. Walking back and forth on tiptoes, biting my...
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The Travelodge has like, 9 channels.
We have:
- Some crappy British drama about a school or something
- A documentary about how scary farming is
- Soccer
- A show about how men can’t look after kids so we should laugh at them
- A show about tragic fat people and how bad they are for society
- A dating show full of vacuous jackasses
- Some poorly aged English murder mystery
- A crappy ‘modern day...
WTF is on ITV3 right now?
I think it’s Murder She Wrote because there’s Angela Landsbury being called Mra Fletcher but I just saw Tom Bosley dressed as a priest so is this some kind of Father Dowling Mysteries crossover?
satans-advocate asked: "Really wish all the campaigns for her would call her Breanna and use the right pronouns." err... what?
Name something with a saddle: “a seat!”
Name a vegetable that needs peeling: “orange!”
Ah, Family Fortunes… It always delivers!
stormageddon, dark lord of all: PSA: →
mcgoats:
(tw: child abuse/abuse apologism)
thecabbage:
kiriamaya:
ouyangdan:
Hitting children is wrong. Full stop.
If you can’t think of a better way to discipline a child, a tiny human who is smaller than you, you need to re-evaluate your approach.
There is NOTHING that a child,…
When I was 7 my dad slapped me in public and nobody intervened. When I was 19 a man hit me in...
YOU MIGHT FIND YOURSELF: Lessons Learned: Haircuts →
youmightfindyourself:
sexpigeon: If a man is going to get a haircut in a slightly-hip salon in New York City he can expect to pay between $30 and $60. There are exceptions that lie beyond either end, but let’s say that this range captures about 85% of the slightly-hip market. These places are fine. They come in a…
My barber is a huge Iranian dude called Roman who’s a serious hair...
.◈❁ animus vox ❁◈.: Transvaginal Ultrasounds ARE... →
of-praxis:
socialistexan:
feminismisprettycool:
imperialchill:
keepyourboehneroutofmyuterus:
I keep wanting to scream, “TRANSVAGINAL ULTRASOUNDS ARE ALREADY HAPPENING RIGHT NOW TODAY IN TEXAS!!!!”
Texas has THREE times as many people as Virginia AND they already…
I’ve had an abortion and like everyone else I know in the uk who’s had one, I hadn’t even heard of...
downdowntogoblintown asked: Regarding cooking with kettles -- You can boil eggs using a kettle if you have a netted bag or something else mesh to keep the egg in. Put the egg in the bag, submerge in water, boil for around ten minutes and you've got a hard boiled egg! You can do pretty much any food that needs boiling the same way, as long as the kettle isn't terribly small and the thing you're boiling...
Does anyone know what kinda food you can cook with...
We’re having to stay in a travelodge for a few more nights, all we have is the kettle that comes with the room. I don’t want to live off cup noodles for the next three days.
And now mum has serious pink eye and we have to buy eye drops. Fun times!
Update: we have a flat, should be able to get it...
It’s only one bedroom so we’ll be alternating who gets the sofa. But for the next three days I’m essentially homeless. Mum has somewhere to go but I don’t. A friend offered to let me have his floor, but then decided I’d get in the way of his uni coursework.
So, I’m gonna try and get a train to Brighton where there’s a few backpacker hostels that are...
1nvadergir asked: Is there any way to get money to you faster?
Thanks for all the lovely messages I've had!
Mum and I are going to an estate agent now to find a place. Hopefully shit will be alright!
More info on my situation:
Dad has kicked out my mum because he’s a shit and now both of us are homeless. Gonna try and find a hostel or a cheap flat together.