February 2012
reeshbooty asked: :D I think I read earlier that you were going back to England, so I should ship them there?
vulpesinculta:
It has been proven by scientists that Raul/everybody is the best ship. “It’s true,” said a scientist [1], “we used science to prove that Raul Tejada is the sexiest motherfucker on the planet and is sorely underappreciated. You can go hard or you can go home.”
Now these are fax I can get behind.
Feels that I has.
TW: Eugenics, Ableism →
fuckthedisabled:
the-unpopular-opinions:
http://withouttides.tumblr.com/
The only reason a physically or mentally disabled child would live an unfair life is because of abusive and exploitative people like you.
As for your ignorant statement regarding disabled people being a drain on society, let me attempt to drill some education into your skull:
Any impairment, in and of itself, does...
Middle class+ UK Uni students make me lol. And...
They talk about how they’re getting ‘valuable life experience’ because they have to learn to budget and live with other people and not have holidays and get the bus and buy shop-brand products… that’s my fucking life! That’s my childhood!
When my parents would only pay bills off about half way so we wouldn’t get anything turned off but we wouldn’t...
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Marijuana is a wonderful pain relief product.
So, there I was in Amsterdam, throbbing back pain from a slipped sciatic nerve and bad arthritic pain in my hips, knees and ankles from walking funny because of the back pain. My right ass cheek was going numb, and I was seriously having to talk myself through walking because I felt like I was gonna pass out.
I needed to sit the fuck down for a while. So I went into a coffeeshop, a Dutch weed...
“Oh boy. Catholics are so hateful! I’m going to start spamming their tag with...”
– Troll (via agentsama)
Buddy, if you think gay dudes getting their good times on is offensive that’s your problem.
And I for one am done with ‘constructive dialogue’. Y’all are trying to control my body, I ain’t too interested in talking it out with you.
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things i seem to have to repeat
deluxvivens:
neetainari:
YES, I am criticizing a system that privileges white, male, cisgendered, heterosexual, Christian, able-bodied people, and a few other categories I may forget. And class. Class is what counts.
NO, I am not hating on white people. I pass as white. I benefit from the skin privilege and let me tell you: the liberty to choose if I’m going to give myself away or not at my...
Has something happened today? All the filesharing...
Only Gorilla vid is responding but that isn’t letting me load videos.
Any ideas?
huerca zafada: galesofnovember: bb-goose:... →
galesofnovember:
bb-goose:
ineffableshe:
To reiterate, I’m honestly shocked that people on Tumblr would be more concerned about capitalist “good consumer” tropes & (paid) actors being presented in fetishistic, objectifying ways by a known porn company than the possibility that…
These are all really important points but I don’t see why it needed a dig at demisexuals and...
Going back to England today :(
I really don’t want to. I am so in love with this country. I love the lifestyle and the culture. I love the public transport. I love that it’s flat. I love that I can smoke weed and that cigarettes are cheaper. I love that the train station has food flaps (google image search ). I love that coffee has evaporated milk and hot dogs have sauerkraut. And I love the canals and the idea of...
autumn-and-eve:
asphyxiette:
Tumblr: the only place in the world where you have to apologize for your skin colour and/or gender identity
Stay classy, folks
I have to apologize for my gender every damn day, on and offline. and pretty much all POC I know will tell you that they have to apologize for their race. But that wasn’t what you meant, was it?
Die cis scum was a tag I used to like.
If I was having a bad time with cis people, I could hit that tag and have some company for my anger.
Now cis scum are deliberately ruining that tag for us. Just like the actuallyautistic tag got deliberately ruined by allistic folk. Fuck privileged assholes man. Fuck cis scum. And all the cis apologist trans folk I see out there yelling about ‘live and let live’ or whatever can go to...
Marine Mammals Need Rights Too, Scientists Say →
deepwithfuture:
“Because of their cultural sophistication these are enormously vulnerable individuals,” said Lori Marino, who studies brain and behavioral evolution in mammals at Emory University in Atlanta. “We have all the evidence to show that there is an egregious mismatch between how cetaceans are and how they are perceived and still treated by our species.”
Giving rights to...
If I have a son, he's getting circumcised.
legalizeforeskin:
tinyteapots:
And that is that.
I’d love to hear what you have to say about MY decision about MY sons penis.
Let’s see. You’re bragging about YOUR hypothetical decision to cut off a part of your CHILD’S penis. I think that about says it all.
I like how ‘my’ is in capitals to emphasize their belief that they own their child and get to make unnecessary...
Bitter Grapes: clarri: brobobunny: clarri:... →
clarri:
brobobunny:
clarri:
brobobunny replied to your post: Gigantically unpopular opinion:
While I can’t really support abortion in any cases where rape isn’t involved, I can respect your view. My little brother was born with Autism, and while I love…
Also, I’m really not a fan of the ‘abortion is serious and emotional for everyone’ rhetoric here. I am one of...
Another reason I love Holland.
My grandmother asked me if I want directions to the specialist condom store because they sell many awesome latex-free products. I didn’t even mention condoms or sex.
Dutch folk are hella laid back about stuff.
Amsterdam is as awesome as always.
I’m here for two more days and then I’m going home. And talking to my nana about everything has really helped. I do want stuff with my husband to work out because I do love him and I know stuff can change.
I’ll miss this place when I go home. The bus had a kinder bueno machine on it. The airport has a library and a museum. Licorice is salty and cheese is plentiful. I love...
Live, Laugh, Awesome: okay, sure you don't think... →
adiosblowreador:
livelaughawesome:
okay, sure that’s fucking fine. you believe that people can’t be otherkin or fictionkin or fictive or non-human. kind of like how right wing nuts think that “gays can be cured” or assholes who claim that “asexuality isn’t real and you just need a…
Re: otherkin and oppression, most of the stuff against otherkin I see is smothered in ableism and...
Can you bring food through an EU airport in a...
I’m gonna want to bring back some cumin seed Gouda and powdered aniseed and salty licorice and whatnot from Holland. Can I have it in a carry-on or will I have to mail it back? I only have a carry-on.
Going to Holland!
Somebody very kind gave me the money for the flights. So I’m off to Holland! It will be nice to have a chance to get my head straight away from him and my mum. And it’s gonna be nice seeing my step-nana again too.
Bye England!
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@lighthouseaccident
Yes, US dollars work on my PayPal!
youarenotyou-deactivated2012022 asked: i'm so sorry that things are going so poorly for you rn :( i haven't been in that situation exactly but i have definitely experienced that level of despair/hopelessness/feeling trapped & it is so awful. (hugs) at the risk of sounding invalidating (i hope it doesn't sound that way--this is what i tell myself to get through rough times): try to take things one day at a time. it...
Anonymous asked: I am so sorry to hear all that you've been going through lately. Your blog, and askanonbinary, have helped me through so much shit in my own life. I wish there were more I could do to help, but at the very least you should know you're a wonderful person and you don't deserve this.
Spoke to him about shit today.
I explained to him how he needs to deal with my mental and he said I was ‘telling him he wasn’t allowed to say anything’. And then he said he ‘needed to think about it’.
I don’t think I can get past this. I think it’s going to be over. Fuck.
Fuck it, finally gonna try sleeping again. Night folks!
prolongedeyecontact asked: I wouldn't call it whining Cydne. I wish there was something I could do to help. I'm thinking about you, though.
Don't be afraid to bleed, afraid to dream:... →
unknowablewoman:
velocidarling replied to your post: LEGITIMATE CONFUSION
I’ve seen some tbros appropriate transmisogyny to mean, as they use it, transphobia [against trans guys]? So maybe they’re calling you it re: discussing abortion as a women’s issue?
But I thought the point…
When cis feminists say abortion is a ‘women’s only issue’ I’d hazard a guess...
Sorry I’ve been whining all night.
Just not coping too well, ya know?
Dropped at least 20 followers since I made my...
Apparently some folk only find me interesting if I don’t ever talk about my personal life.
racismschool:
stfuconfederates:
stonedpervert:
stfuconfederates:
Fuck the history booksx
Translation: Never apologize for using the popular ‘state’s rights’ defense for your obvious racism, and fuck what actually happened because you like your white supremacist version of history better.
^Translation: I’m a dumb, neo-liberal reactionary that believes everything I read in books that...
I can’t face losing my benefits. If I move in with the husband or my mother I will. I can’t afford to lose that money. I can’t find a job, believe me, I’ve been looking. I don’t know how I’m gonna survive this.
allecto asked: I'm so sorry about everything.
deviousmouse replied to your post: Why couldn’t my husband just not be an asshole?…
(Depression warning) Because there are no rules to life and it’s chaos. So you might as well try to make your own personal rules and live the way you want? It beats the alternative, which is to give up.
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Look, I’m sure you probably meant this in a really nice way but… How the...
1nvadergir asked: Would sending money to your paypal only make you more overdrawn? How much would you need to be given to get out of a financial hole?
Why couldn’t my husband just not be an asshole? Why couldn’t my mother not cheat on my dad?
Why is my life always in the hands of everyone else? Why does everything I work for disintegrate every time my life is going well through no fault of my own?
And because mum and dad split up she doesn’t have any money. Which means I can’t go to the gym anymore. And yes, this sounds so petty, but for once in my life I was doing exercise and feeling good! It was giving me self confidence and I actually enjoyed it. And it was the only thing I had outside my house that wasn’t a drinking problem.
lemon curry?: is it possible that transautism... →
goldenheartedrose:
geekybitch:
ironical-moronical:
uuuh this has been bothering me for a while wow um i cant believe im getting this of my chest the thing is just like transexuals feel they were born the wrong gender i feel like i was born the wrong mental state as a non…
Sweet Jesus, apparently saying ‘I’m so OCD!!!’ isn’t enough anymore. ‘Gifted with...
qinhara-deactivated20120225 asked: i am so sorry that you are having to deal with such a terrible, oppressive situation. so angry at your husband and your mother for being so horrifically ableist. i really hope that somehow you manage to get out to a safer place.
The government goes on about how great marriage is for society but getting married to someone who earns minimum wage and does a 14-20 hour a week job resulted in losing my disability benefits.
I can’t get a job that will accommodate my disability or with hours that I can manage. I can’t even get a job at all because of this economy and continuing discrimination against metal health...
Now my face is coming up in a rash. Not sure if it’s an allergy or stress at this point.
blinkpink asked: Anything I can do to help?
tal9000 replied to your post: I’m 20 and I’m living in a hotel with a woman who…
Can you pull money out of your paypal account or are there barriers to that? I put a few pounds there.
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It takes 3-5 days to go through and the account it goes into is £30 overdrawn. I only found that out yesterday.
All I’ve eaten today is a cup noodle and a bag of crisps. I can’t do this.
And what I really need is a job so I can at least save some money but in this town in this economy with my disabilities I’m basically fucked.
I’m 20 and I’m living in a hotel with a woman who just yelled at me for sniffling despite the fact she’s had two coughing fits in the past hour. Soon I’m going to move into a 1 bedroom flat in a bad area with her where I get to be yelled at for biting my nails or not doing the dishes. The alternative is moving back in with my husband who demanded a medical certificate to...